a quote from trili's blog:
a relationship can only survive, if there's giving and taking. you have to give and take.. if you keep giving, you'll be extremely burnt out at the end of the day. if only one side keeps giving, the other party would just keep taking and taking and taking.. and the other party wont learn how to give ? cos in their mind its just " all i need, is to take.. i dont need to give. " give and take, give and take. its just like, water in a jug. if you keep pouring and pouring, it'll just become empty. not a single drop left. but if you keep filling it up, keep giving the jug water, then there'll always be water to pour out. thats how droughts occur. because people keep using water, and the sun dries the water out. yet it doesnt rain, so its just dry land. dry cracked land. no harvest, no plants. no life. one can always give, without loving. but one cant love, without giving.

i think this is so true.. :( yeahs.. ohwell..
you can read the rest of the entry at trili's blog. >< LOl im like advertising.. ohwell! :)) wahahas..
-nathaniel!!